FREE LIVE WORKSHOP · SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 14 · 7PM CET / 1PM ET

For engineers, developers, and finance guys in their 30s or older…

You're a Great Catch on Paper. So Why Does She Say "Nice to Meet You" and Never Want to See You Again?

Discover the 3-Step Flirty Conversations System that 500+ analytical men in their thirties and forties have used to turn platonic small talk into real dates, so you stop settling for women you're not excited about, or spending another year alone.

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Alex Leon in a conversation with a woman he just approached on the street

Here's what you'll discover in this free live workshop with Alex Leon:

  • Why the analytical brain that got you promoted is the same thing that keeps your conversations with women flat, platonic, and going nowhere, and the simple switch out of "work mode" that fixes it.
  • The one small change to "So what do you do?" that turns the most boring question in dating into the moment she leans in and starts feeling attracted to you.
  • Where do you actually rank among men your age? We'll run the numbers together during the workshop. If you're a developer, engineer or finance guy with a stable life, it's probably far higher than you think, and it changes how you walk up to a woman.
  • The 3 steps every conversation has to go through before she sees you as someone worth dating, whether you talk for 2 minutes or 20. Skip one, and she forgets you by the evening.
  • What to say in the first 10 seconds so you skip the small talk entirely, and why an honest compliment beats every clever opener you've ever read about online.
  • The "Lunch Break Method" for meeting women you like, even during a busy 50+ hour work week, without going to bars, swiping on dating apps for hours, or giving up your evenings.
Alex in a conversation with a woman, sitting outdoors
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PLUS: every step demonstrated live with my assistant Sasha, so you hear exactly what to say, see how a real woman reacts, and know what a good conversation looks like before you ever try it yourself.

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500+ analytical men just like you have already used this system:

Nejc · Software engineer, Slovenia

Went from conversations that barely lasted a minute to dating multiple attractive women and finding his dream girlfriend in less than a year.

Kamiar · PhD, Belgium

From "nice guy" conversations that led nowhere to multiple women asking him out within a few months of using this system.

Dang · Construction engineer, 157cm

Went from zero dates in three years to over ten dates in two weeks.

You've optimised almost every part of your life. Except this one.

If you're like most of the men I work with, you've already done a lot of things right. You built a career as an engineer, a developer or in finance, you earn well, you take care of yourself, and your life is stable in a way most men never manage.

And yet your dating life doesn't reflect any of it.

You meet women at work, at the gym or in the café you go to every morning. Sometimes you even talk to one you really like.

But the conversation always stays platonic. You ask what she does, she replies, and after a few minutes of small talk, it runs out of air. She smiles, says "nice to meet you," and you never see her again.

So you end up swiping on the apps for matches you're not excited about, or dating whoever shows interest first instead of the women you're actually attracted to. Meanwhile, guys with half your career are dating exactly the kind of women you'd love to meet.

And every year it doesn't change, it gets a little harder to believe it will.

Here's why this is happening to you:

In the first few minutes of meeting you, a woman can't see your career, your values, or how smart you are. All she has to go on is how you talk to her, and if the conversation stays rational and boring, every advantage you've built stays invisible.

But conversations are a skill. Like coding or reading a balance sheet, they follow a structure you can learn step by step.

Nobody ever taught you that structure. In this free workshop, I will.

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Meet your host

I used to be the shy engineer who never knew what to say

I grew up in a small town in Austria and spent five years at an all-boys technical high school. The path was clear. Become a programmer or an engineer, get a normal job and live a normal life.

None of those technical skills helped me with women. I was introverted and analytical, and I honestly believed you had to be an extrovert to get anywhere in dating.

When I finally moved away from home to study computer science in Vienna, I got obsessed with one question. How does a shy, analytical guy end up dating the women he's genuinely attracted to?

I spent the next decade answering it. First on my own, failing a lot. Then for seven years alongside mentors who were already great with women, approaching thousands of women along the way, until I was consistently dating the women I actually wanted.

When other introverted, analytical men started asking me for help, I went back to the engineer in me. I studied thousands of my own filmed conversations and noticed that every one that led to a date went through the same few steps, in the same order. The ones that died skipped at least one.

That became the Flirty Conversations System. Since 2018, I've taught it to over 500 men, most of them engineers, developers, and finance professionals in their thirties and forties with busy jobs and little free time.

And on November 14, I'll reveal the full system to the public, in a free online workshop where I walk you through every step and demonstrate it in front of you.

Alex Leon then, a shy engineering student, and today

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The workshop

Inside the workshop: 3 simple parts, with real proof all the way through

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Part 1: Unlocking Your Dating Advantage

Why you're a far better catch than you think, and why that matters before you say a word

  • Work out your own number live with the dating-market calculator, and see where a stable engineer, developer or finance guy really ranks among men his age
  • Why you talk yourself out of conversations with women you like, even though you're one of the most desirable men in the room
  • The "school test" that shows you how far ahead you already are, and why most men never notice it
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Part 2: The 3-Step Flirty Conversations System

How to start a conversation, keep it going and make it flirty, step by step

  • The 3 steps every conversation has to go through before she sees you as someone she wants to date
  • How to start a conversation with a simple, direct compliment that skips the small talk without coming across as cheesy or pushy
  • The exact moment to turn a friendly chat flirty, and the small changes in what you say that make it happen
  • Every step demonstrated live with Sasha, so you hear what to say and see how she reacts before you try it yourself
Alex in a conversation with a woman on the street
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Part 3: The Lunch Break Method

How to actually put it into action, even if you have a very busy life

  • Where to meet women you're attracted to in real life during your day-to-day life, without going to bars, clubs, or wasting your evenings
  • How to use the 3 steps in a 5-minute window, like a lunch break or the walk home from the office
  • The simple numbers behind it: how many conversations it takes to get a date, so you can plan it like any other project
Alex talking with a woman outside a cafe
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This workshop is perfect for you if…

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500+ men have already used this system. Here's what a few of them say.

Constantin · Shy crypto trader

Started building romantic connections

Hari · Consultant

For a long time, I felt like I didn't deserve love, and every approach felt like a dagger to the heart. But with Alex's help, I met multiple amazing partners who cared about me.

Nejc · Software engineer, Slovenia

“After 2 months of working with Alex, I was already going on two dates a week with women who were not just hot, but also smart and feminine.”

Two dates a week within two months

Dang · Construction engineer

“Before working with Alex, I didn't have a date in 3 years, and now I dated over 10 cute girls in two weeks.”

From zero dates in three years to 10+ dates in two weeks

Kamiar · PhD, Belgium

“I used to be the nice guy who would go on dates that led nowhere. But since working with Alex, that has changed, and now women want to get sexual, because I'm comfortable with my masculinity.”

From "nice guy" to real attraction

WhatsApp message from a client about his dates after the workshop
WhatsApp message from a client about a date after his first day of approaching
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Frequently asked questions

Is the workshop really free, and why?

Yes. It's a free live online workshop on Saturday, November 14, at 7pm CET / 1pm ET. I made it free because I want to help as many men as possible solve this. After coaching over 500 analytical men, I've seen how urgent this is for guys in their 30s and older, and how much it costs them every year it goes unsolved. If you're committed to not spending another year alone, grab your spot now.

Will there be a replay?

Yes, every participant gets the recording. But I highly recommend you join live, because you'll be able to ask me questions, interact with Sasha, and get live coaching that you simply won't get from a recording.

I'm an introvert. Will this work for me?

I built it for you. I'm an introvert and a former computer science student myself, and most of the 500+ men I've coached are analytical, introverted guys. You won't need to become loud or high-energy.

Am I too old for this at 35, 40 or older?

No. Most of my clients are in their thirties and forties. With a stable career and life, your age is usually an advantage once your conversations start showing who you are.

I'm really busy. Do I have time for this?

Part 3 of the workshop is about exactly that. With the Lunch Break Method, I'll show you how to use the system in short windows, even during a 50+ hour work week.

Isn't approaching a woman I don't know a bit creepy?

It only feels creepy when it's needy, pushy or hidden behind a fake excuse. When you're honest about why you're talking to her, respectful, and happy to let her go if she's not interested, most women find it flattering, because so few men have the courage to do it. In the workshop, I'll show you how to start a conversation so it feels natural for both of you.

Is this about pickup lines or manipulation?

No. I'll teach you how to have honest, natural conversations that stay true to who you are, and make them flirty so they actually lead somewhere.

Will I have to approach women during the workshop?

No. I'll demonstrate every step live with Sasha, so you know exactly what a good conversation looks like before you try it yourself.

Will this work where I live?

Yes. The system is about the conversation itself, so it works wherever you meet women: at work, in a café, at the gym or through friends.

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2027 is around the corner. Don't waste another year on platonic conversations that go nowhere.

Free live workshop · Saturday, November 14 · 7pm CET / 1pm ET

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